Ever questioned your self or others on what is life all about? Of course as any ordinary person, we receive tons of advice and predecessor guidelines in living the proper life. The ultimate goal for any human being would be about living happily by knowing what is right or wrong. All those advise were said and written by life or religious philosophers based on experience. You know what? Forget that crap.

• Everyone’s life is entirely different from another. You are your experience. You create your own experience. Everything is in your hands.
• There is something more superior than experience. It is Instinct. Your heart’s silent desires.
• There is nothing unachievable if you work for it. (taking into count you know what you are doing)
• Living away from the world (silence) or creating noise (trouble) is not going to create happiness.
• Your life is in your hands. Do not live in predictions. Life is unpredictable but just listen to your instincts. If you are clear of fearful corruptions, then your instincts are right.

Creating Happiness Within One & Another

People from the past till present have come a long way in trying to obtain what is called optimum happiness in life. Many philosophers and great minds, have come up with so many verbal advises, literatures, and theories that seems to have some sort of connection with optimum happiness of life. Many are as such by isolating one’s self from family life and public activities in the name of religious believes. Some go in the path of becoming social activist while isolating family and closed one’s. Are this great paths to be followed? I feel, people in the past were as confused as people are today. Trying things as such would have possibly created a better feeling for the respective predecessors, but it would not be applicable for all. The probabilities of such are impossible to attain if you in any way neglect your family or become too concern on your faith.

I don’t write or speak with experience. But I believe strongly in my instincts. From what I conclude, my instinct in optimum living would never create another question in its acceptance.

1. Your Wife & Kids. The most valuable assets to your life after your own self. Learn to be sincere to this circle. Never ever think of any form of betrayal to this circle. If you can keep this primary circle of people happy, You have no more worries in life. You will even be happy, if you have nothing to leisure on. But, it will drive you to get your basic necessities and will not leave one’s life in idle. You will know if your desires are worth or not, if you reach optimum living within this circle. For married people: Be sincere. For youth/unmarried: Don’t screw around and be sincere to the only one who you wish to live with. Start living a family life as soon as you can. But be mature in your thinking first.
2. Family. Your parents and siblings. Take care of them in what ever ways you can. Probably an unconditional support. Never neglect any, even if they do. Keep them happy if you could afford it. Don’t be stingy with your excess. But be cautious, If you can’t keep your primary circle happy or don’t think you are capable of  living up to your family’s expectations, then don’t even attempt to move to the second circle. The reason, you will never find happiness. Your unfinished desires in your primary circle will stop you. But never the less, don’t neglect anybody in your family.
3. Public. First thing first, never attempt to keep the world happy or change the world if you have not completed your optimum living in the first two circles. You will dig your own grave if you do not have the proper base support(first 2 circles) to do anything regarding the public. Proper example, would be people getting themselves involved in politics. If you desire to serve the people, make sure you have served your first two circles in the first place.

Never ever doubt or question your life, if you have not fulfilled your circles. End of of the day, the world’s happiness is you. If you are happy, and if you can keep your primary circle happy. It goes on and on….

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As the pathless penguins picturised above, where is our faith on our astonishing planet heading to? Are we already taking steps to change this planet? Maintaining our planet’s health practically. Its not only the researchers, authorities or enthusiasts capabilities and responsibilities to keep this earth green and safe. What about normal people like us? What are the possible things that ordinary people could do? Based on what has been happening for the past months,

• Stop partying on Earth Day/ Earth Hour and start taking some immediate actions rather than having a pool party?
• Turning off taps is the least we could do. Switching off lights is the least we could do. But often we fail to.
• What about investing in nature? Plant more trees/plants around you. Create a greener atmosphere.
• Blog about your ideas, technologies that you know could make the planet healthier, household tips, energy saving ideas,….
• Change the papers on your printer’s tray to recycled papers.
• Most of all, sort your garbage to the appropriate bins/bags. Do not mix your food waste with recyclable materials. Separate them.

What are your green tips, tech and trends? It would be really wonderful, if you my fellow readers would join along me, to discover the possibilities in preventing this planet from significant disasters. I feel its really important for us to have such post in-between to keep our selves awake from the destructions we are making and solutions that is needed to aid our planet’s health.

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Bitching!

You may get the limelight to some extent. I’ve seen it worked to some extent but here’s the catch. If you do it right, you get known but if you fail to, you are going to bombarded. 

Bitching may be done two ways. Either constructive or destructive. 

If you are like me, either one of them can’t be as important as both is, as I tend to mix both all the time. Well, bitching constructively, would simply mean, by bringing conversations back to your content about other peoples blog post, tweets, videos, and any other form of communication while giving your positive views on it. At the same time, participating in their community by interacting with the original content provider himself and with his/hers community. For those who don’t get this community thing, I just meant the comments/reply sections. And, when I mean positive, its all about interacting and gaining trust, hope, and credibility with the creator and his community. 

On the other hand, destructive bitching also aims to gain trust, hope & credibility but in a more tensed manner. Forget about the @$@%^! kind of comments, that are by pure jerks but what I’m trying to get attention is the proper way of bitching in a destructive manner while making sure it’s a win-win situation for both. If you feel something is just not right, bring back the conversations and restate them. Go back to the original content provider & his/hers community and do provide tensed feedback but avoid being aggressive. People always fail in this part as they try to prove them selfs right and the creator is wrong while ending up in a very aggressive manner. You see the key here is to maintain positive relationships.

Therefore you have to know how not to sound like an angry shark but more of a snake. I think I’m getting a bit too subjective on my descriptions here. Sorry for that, I’m just trying to get my point out. Experiment your methods. You never what works! 

The main focus here, is to get into the conversation. It’s not stalking. Anything is known as stalking only if you invade ones personal space in a timeline. Never the less, make sure you don’t sound like a jerk by doing either.

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Is it that difficult to love what you do, being different at the same time while making a stand in public? Walking down my experiences over this few months, it saddens me to see people who believed to be professionals are just not doing things right I suppose. Everyone seems to be happy with what they know and do not even initiate creative thoughts on anything they do. Right from technological innovation to agriculture, if there was no one person who thought differently and took a stand for his or hers idea, where would we be today? Could we have been developed as how we are today? Questions as such ignites you for a second to sit back and think of what have man contributed to civilization, ethics & cultures.

When we work or have a passion in an interest/hobby, we tend to do just what we know for a very long time. How many of us have actually contributed extra in the sense of creativeness in our daily jobs? Most people I have seen are clearly clueless on diversifying themselves as they have become very inclined towards a particular field they are related to. Sadly, even the creative fields are just the same. Is it due to a regional mass culture influence? I’m pretty clueless if people were to point me at such a view. How difficult is it for someone to think out of the box? How difficult is it for someone to go all out on researching/participating on online media for resources or even the nearest library? All for the purpose of providing extra-ordinary service and products.

Do cultures play a part in the way most people think? Is it why, many people have a perception that only the west have such capabilities because of their very self-centered/individualistic thoughts? No. Not at all. Those are the regions where even Romeo & Juliet originated as how we have Mumtaj & Shahjahan in the east. Love and care for others do exist in everyone precisely. They are not as self centered as how some of us are here in the name of collectivity. We are all humans. It is how we get used to a common mindset. Everyone has his or hers own rights and feelings. We can be as diversified as how they do if only we want.

The days are gone where you have a single profession. An interest of yours today is as good as your profession if a little perfection were to be imposed. Some may argue in sense of time and schedules. That is not even an excused to be heard. It is how we plan our self. Is it how we perceive ourselves. It is how we shape the right attitude. Its gone the days where we have the separation between the worker and the thinker. It order to succeed in your diversified passions, you need to be a combination of both. Always think out of the box. Don’t be too  comfortable with what we know today. Keep learning. Keep expanding. Aim to perfection. Imagine and work the impossibles. Your limelight, is on it’s way. Do not stop no matter who says what. Be focused and rock on.

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You may complain as much as you want. You are not going to be known for god’s shake. You may earn a little hike in traffic. But could you really make a change? Does your opinion matter to some corporate companies or groups etc..? Do you think they listen? Some do, I must say but there’s a limit and you should know what it is. You have to make sure you have your facts right. If you are just going to give another post that says.. “Aaaa Yes Me To”… kind of stuff, it’s not going to go anywhere…. but you could gain a couple of yawns. So wake up!

Thinks not to do :

• Immature Complains – Well search this term (slow streamyx) on google blog search and you would know what I mean.
• Don’t give ideas as though you’re the only person trying to change the world.
• Stop the “me to” type of post – I support this and that etc etc.. You get the point.

Thinks to do :

• Be opinionated for your readers only! not aimed at respective companies/parties.
• The goal is to share therefore creating a value is your concern. Think before you hit the publish key if your post will be helpful to some extent!
• There is no harm on sharing your personal life with a crowd yet do make sure you know what is appropriate. No one want’s to read your poem, love letters or your latest fight with your girlfriends/boyfriends.

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